Former reality TV star BBNaija’s Tochi has ignited debate on social media after sharing his thoughts on friendships, relationships, and marriage.
In a series of posts on his Instagram Story, he encouraged men to value platonic friendships with women, saying they can provide meaningful support without becoming romantic.
According to him, many men fail to realize the benefits of maintaining healthy, non-sexual relationships with women because they often allow romance or intimacy to complicate things.
BBNaija’s Tochi speaks on platonic friendships
Sharing his opinion, Tochi stressed that genuine friendships between men and women can have a positive impact on a person’s life when they are built on mutual respect rather than sexual attraction.
He wrote:
“As a man, learn to have non-sexual friendships with women. You’ll be surprised how much value and support they add to your life. Most times, sex spoils good friendships.”
The statement quickly gained attention, with many social media users sharing differing opinions on whether men and women can truly remain just friends without developing romantic feelings.
While some agreed with the former Big Brother Naija housemate, others argued that emotional attraction often makes such friendships difficult to sustain over time.
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Reality star also advises married men
In another post, BBNaija’s Tochi shifted his attention to marriage, urging married men to remain committed to their wives instead of seeking relationships with other women.
He wrote:
“He that find a wife, finds a good thing and should leave other women alone.”
His message was welcomed by many users who described it as a reminder of the importance of loyalty and commitment in marriage.
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Others noted that his advice aligns with the belief that healthy marriages thrive on faithfulness and respect.
However, not everyone agreed with his broader views on friendships between men and women. The conversation has continued across various social media platforms, with users debating whether platonic friendships can truly exist without romantic complications.
Despite the differing opinions, BBNaija’s Tochi has once again found himself at the center of online discussions, as his comments continue to generate reactions from fans and relationship enthusiasts alike.
